Friend Zoned | The Virgin Chronicles

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin. Here’s the truth, men love the idea of a woman being a virgin. They want to be able to say that they were their wives first and last. Plot twist…… they don’t want to date a virgin. Isn’t that the most stupidest thing you’ve ever heard? How are you suppose to get the virgin if you don’t want to date the virgin ?

I’ve heard and seen it all when it comes to the topic of dating a virgin. If you guys don’t already know I am a virgin. Yes! A 23 year old college graduate virgin. Hard to believe? Yeah I know but believe it.  I’ve been friend zoned, dumped, cheated on, no text back, no second date, etc. Just because I said I am virgin. Guys find it very hard to date a virgin. I’ve heard every line in the book to why we need to end things.

Honestly dating a virgin is not as hard as people make it seem. The bible intended for us to wait until we were married to have sex. Some where down the line because of Adam and Eve sin was created. Within those sins sex before marriage was one of them. In todays society people make it seem like waiting to have sex is like selling your soul to the devil.

When I tell a guy that I am a virgin the first thing they say is… ” that’s good I’m proud of you”. TF? Proud of me you aren’t my daddy son. (excuse my language). Then they fake how interested they still are in me and then I run them off.

Then there are the guys that think they’re “the one”. They stay around for a couple of months and then they say how much they like me and they want to be my first. How we have so much chemistry and having sex will bring us closer. Blah blah blah blah……then like the rest of them the “we should just be friends” topic come sup.

Being a virgin is something that I am proud of. Not many people believe that I am a virgin but that’s their opinion. I am trying to wait until I am married to have sex. I’m 23 years old I plan on getting married at 27-28. That’s only 4 years from now. I mean I waited 23 years already what is another 4 going to do? Kill me? Until next time. (:


Author: Karly Shenell

Hello my name is Karly and I am 25 years old. I was born and raised on the beautiful island of St.Thomas but I currently live in Dallas, Texas.

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