I was in high school and all my friends were doing it. I was in college and all my friends were doing it. I am now graduated from college and I’m still not doing it. What I mean is SEX ! Yes that three letter word that is so popular. Well I am 23 years old and I am still a VIRGIN! These are the reason why I haven’t had sex yet.
1. My body is a temple and the Bible says the only safe place to open up your pandora box is in a marriage. That is why I am a firm believer in True Love Waits. Don’t get me wrong I have thought about having sex. I just never had the balls to actually go through with it. I am honestly trying to hold out until I am married, whenever that will be.
2. I feel like the first time I have sex and I am not married I will get pregnant. I will be one of the few girls that gets pregnant the first time they have sex. I mean that would be a great way for God to punish me for disobeying him right?
3. I am worried of what will happen after. Will the guy and I still be together? Was it really worth it because I gave him the only precious gift that I had? Does he really love me? Will he get married? Will I be really attached and emotional? I mean I dated my ex for a year and a half and we never had sex. I was heart broken when we broke up and I couldn’t get over him for some odd reason. I never understood why I was so attached if we never had sex. So image if I did have sex with someone.
4. I don’t want a body count. I know someone who needs their hands and toes to count how many people they’ve had sex with. I’m not judging but I don’t want to be that girl. I want to be able to enjoy sex with that one person I am supposed to be with forever. I know life isn’t a cinderella movie but I try to make mine as close as possible.
5. I don’t think I am ready. I don’t think I will ever be ready. I don’t think I’ve found the one whom my soul loves. I thought I did but I didn’t. So image if I did have sex with my ex boyfriend. I did think about it… I thought about it a lot but it never happened. If I did we probably would of still been broken up and I would of wasted my one thing I can never get back. I look at my virginity like my one wish from a genie. I only have this one wish and I need to use it wisely.